Terms Of Engagement

Our Mission Statement

We at Forever Femdom are dedicated to providing a safe space for Dominant Women and the submissive men who adore us. We host many different types of events and parties, all of which are designed for social introduction, interaction, education and of course the opportunity to explore and elevate one’s Dominant and submissive desires to their full potential.

All in attendance – both Dominants and submissives – are screened and vetted to attend our events, to ensure a respectful, safe and enjoyable experience for all in attendance. 

In Southern California, we are thrilled to host our events at Orange County’s newest, most elegant, and fully equipped dungeon, appropriately named Haus Of Whacks! To view this incredible facility, please visit their website at www.HausOfWhacks.com

Who can attend Forever FemDom Events?

Forever FemDom events are specifically designed for Dominant Women and submissive men. Our events are not appropriate for Dominant Males (unless of course, you wish to step over to the dark side lol). 

Is there an age requirement to attend Forever Femdom events?

Forever FemDom is an adults-only event designed for individuals 21+, with specific age verification requirements. To ensure compliance, valid identification, such as a driver’s license or ID card, is required and will be checked at the entrance of our venue.

How many Dominas typically attend these events? 

Naturally, the number of women in attendance varies from event to event and we can make no promises in that regard. However, we have over 3,000 Dominant Women in our vast database to call upon so we typically have a healthy attendance. We only accept a limited number of Female guests, selected on a first come, first served basis, to maintain a fun atmosphere and an intimate Dom/sub ratio. 

How do I meet someone at these parties? 

Keep in mind we all know why we are here, and everyone in the room has a true passion for Dominance and submission. No one will ever be judged at Forever FemDom events. We all celebrate and encourage each other’s fantasies. This is your personal invitation to live and create new experiences as well as turn dreams and fantasies into reality. 

As a male submissive, if there is someone who peaks your interest, take the initiative and introduce yourself. Negotiation and play begins with good communication. But please do so politely and with the utmost of respect. Do not interrupt her if she is already engaged in a conversation or already playing with someone else. Do not touch…ever. Do not let your fragile male ego get the better of you, as it will not turn out well for you. Leave any preconceived notions of masculinity at the door, and allow yourself to have a magical evening. As an alternative, you may ask our party Hostess to make an introduction for you.

On the other side of the coin, if a Domina has interest in you, she will undoubtedly let you know. Muuuuaaaahhhhaaahhhhaaaaaaa!

How Should One Dress To Attend A Forever FemDom Event?

For Dominas in attendance, we recommend fetish and/or erotic alternative fashion. Think Femme Fatale, Eyes Wide Shut, Leather, Latex, Vinyl, Velvet, Lingerie, Nylon/Spandex, Gothic, etc.

For male supplicants in attendance, you will have the privilege of meeting and interacting with many of the FemDom community’s most beautiful and demanding Dominant Women. As such, we strongly recommend that you arrive well groomed and dressed to impress…shorts, t-shirts, baseball caps, etc are not appropriate attire. If you are extremely lucky, your clothing may in fact become irrelevant/optional as the evening wears on (wink, wink).

Are sexual activities permitted at Forever FemDom parties? 

Let’s be honest. There is going to be nudity in varying degrees. A submissive cannot be properly flogged with his shirt on. Nor can his butt cheeks be caned a lovely shade of pink with his pants on. And how would a sadistic Dominant ever torment a male’s privates with a pair of boxers getting  in the way?  We are all adults here and we all know what is involved with an event where play is encouraged. So let’s keep our wits about us and enjoy the scene. 

Is there enough room to play at the party? 

Haus of Whacks is a massive, 2300 sq. ft. facility boasting an extensive and decadent collection of BDSM furniture and accoutrements from the finest craftsmen in the world  to heighten everyone’s experience. And as such, Haus Of Whacks is perfectly suited for our events. In addition to plenty of play space, there are numerous sofas and adequate seating areas for watching and relaxing.

What time do the parties start?

The specifics of each event (ie date, theme, dress code, start and end time, etc.) will always be listed on our promotional flyers, website, and marketing posts.  Our venue address, parking details, check in process, etc.) will be sent with your receipt upon purchase of your ticket.  

What is the cost of admission for Forever FemDom events? 

Forever FemDom has several different types of events. We host Fetish Socials. Play Parties, Educational Workshops, and more!  Ticket prices will vary. For those parties designated “Pay For Play”, in addition to the advertised door fee, attending supplicants may remit a $100 tribute directly to their Domina of choice for 30 minutes of more intimate, one-on-one play at one of the many play stations throughout the studio. Think spanking, flogging, caning, boot worship, bondage, etc.

How may I purchase tickets?

Each event will have it’s own ticketing link. A Guest List will be at the door for both Dominants and submissives in attendance. Forever FemDom is an upscale, discreet event with a limited capacity…by design.  And our Guest List is strictly regulated.

Does Forever FemDom share our names or personal information?

Your privacy is our top priority. Any information you provide when signing up or attending the event is kept strictly confidential. We will never contact you by mail or phone. The only detail we retain is your email address, solely for the purpose of sharing updates about future parties and events. Your trust and discretion are important to us.

Can I just show up at the door the night of the party?

Absolutely not. Only individuals on the guest list will be granted entry to our parties. To attend, you must register for the specific event you’re interested in. Upon registering, you will promptly receive a personal confirmation and invitation containing all event details. This ensures a smooth and exclusive experience for all guests. Ticket sales will stay open until capacity is met or until 1 hr before the event’s conclusion.

May I bring a friend with me?

Absolutely not. Entry to the party is strictly limited to invited guests who are on our private guest list. Only those who have registered, or have received a personal invitation from Forever FemDom will be permitted. Friends, escorts, or any unregistered individuals will not be allowed into the event. This policy ensures a safe, exclusive, and enjoyable experience for all attendees.

How safe and secure is the party?

Very. Your security, safety and comfort is our personal priority, so please rest assured that you will be well protected. We always provide security personnel on site to ensure your safety and well-being. A designated party host will also be available at all times if you should need anything. Also, at the end of the evening all Ladies will be escorted to their vehicles. 

What is your re-entry policy?

Absolutely no ins and outs. For safety reasons, if you leave the premises you will not be allowed to re-enter the event. If you must step to your car for a moment to grab something (ie., toy bag) please make it quick. You must however be checked in/out by our Door Person. 

Am I allowed to smoke or vape? 

Absolutely not. Smoking (of any kind) is not permitted indoors at this fabulous dungeon facility. We do however have access to an outside area to smoke, catch a breath of fresh air, or if you just need a moment to take a break from all the fun. You must however be fully clothed to go outside and you are not permitted to play, engage in bdsm activities, etc., while outside. Be respectful and keep the party indoors. 

What is your cell phone policy?

Cell phone use is strictly prohibited inside the venue to foster a more social and engaging environment. If you need to make or take a call, please step outside or use the lobby area. Being present and interacting with others is key to enjoying the party, and staying off your phone ensures a more connected and enjoyable experience for everyone. So please put your phone away, join the fun, and make the most of the night!  

What is your photography policy? 

This is a very “touchy” subject. Respect for our guests’ privacy and total discretion is priority #1. For this reason we have a NO-PHOTOS policy unless expressed authorization has been provided by our party host. Forever FemDom will have a specified area where photos may be taken,  but only with mutual consent of all parties involved. If you would like a picture as a souvenir with a guest, please feel free to approach the host and we will try to accommodate you. However, no random photos, video, etc are permitted in the main play areas. If you fail to comply with these guidelines you will be asked to leave the party. 

Are food and drinks available at Forever FemDom events? 

Yes. Snacks and beverages are available.